I've lived both far too much and not nearly enough

"I think to be discontent with a world that is wrong is actually the appropriate response – to feel..."

Thu, 07 Jun 2012 19:15:34 -0400

“I think to be discontent with a world that is wrong is actually the appropriate response – to feel uncomfortable with the way that the poor are treated or with the racism that still exists in our country or with your own spiritual hunger. These are discomforts that can move you toward the truth.”

- Jon Foreman (via hopeinmotion)

markmuldez: Hello Anon, This is probably the hardest question...

Thu, 07 Jun 2012 18:17:25 -0400

markmuldez:

Hello Anon,

This is probably the hardest question I’ve ever received. Mainly because I’m single, not married and I haven’t encounter this situation. But if ever this happens to me, I will go ahead and try my best to answer this question . And for the benefit of all my followers in hopes that this might bring an encouragement to some of you.

If my future wife isn’t physically ‘pure’ anymore, would my feelings and views change? Of course not. If I truly embrace my identity in Christ, and If I claim to be a genuine follower of His, then I would understand what LOVE & FORGIVENESS is. Scriptures says,

But God shows his LOVE for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. - Romans 5:8

See, when we fully realize that we are a bunch of broken and sinful people and yet because of His unmeasurable love for us He chose to save us and still love us inspite of who we are. We learn to understand that God’s love wasn’t based on HOW GOOD & PERFECT WE ARE, His love was based on HOW GOOD HE REALLY IS. And because of that truth, that translates to every relationships in our lives.

Going back to my future wife, If God really handpicked her for me, if she’s really the ‘ONE’ for me, my LOVE for her isn’t based on who she was, it’s not based on her past, my love is based on who she is NOW in CHRIST.

I’d be lying if I say I don’t feel sad about her confession, Obviously I’d definitely feel a deep sense of sorrow because of the result of her past life and past sins. But at the same time, that doesn’t mean I’m better than her, I’m just like her a sinner with a broken past, and in constant need of God’s grace & forgiveness. I myself would have to confess that I’ve compromised my purity in some levels, so I’m definitely not perfect. But because of Christ, we are new creations and our identities are based on Him not on our past.

And I know for sure the enemy will use our past sins against us, but if we just remember to point ourselves back to God and to remember His amazing grace and His forgiveness that He displayed through His Son on the cross, and keep pressing on to Him and seek His ways, I’m sure we will have a fruitful marriage. :))

Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. - 1 Corinthians 13:7

I hope this helps. :)

In Christ,
Mark M.

My dad at 29, me at 2 weeks. Me at 29, my boy at 2 weeks.”

Thu, 07 Jun 2012 18:14:53 -0400

My dad at 29, me at 2 weeks. Me at 29, my boy at 2 weeks.”

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"Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around...."

Thu, 07 Jun 2012 14:12:32 -0400

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”

- (via keeper0fyourheart)

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"What has caused you to be angry with God? Unhappy, frustrated? Feeling as if He has let you down. In..."

Wed, 06 Jun 2012 22:13:23 -0400

“What has caused you to be angry with God? Unhappy, frustrated? Feeling as if He has let you down. In these moments you got to ask yourself, ‘Am I angry at the real God because He didn’t serve my false god?’”

- Mark Driscoll (via iamnotofthisworld)

"Men, you’ll never be a good groom to your wife unless you’re first a good bride to Jesus."

Wed, 06 Jun 2012 22:12:37 -0400

“Men, you’ll never be a good groom to your wife unless you’re first a good bride to Jesus.”

- Timothy Keller (via jspark3000)

THIS. MEN. THIS.

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"When a person begins to experience true godly sorrow over his sin, a change begins to occur in his..."

Wed, 06 Jun 2012 17:17:08 -0400

“When a person begins to experience true godly sorrow over his sin, a change begins to occur in his heart. He literally begins to hate his sin, realizing its evil, deceitful nature which has kept him out of real fellowship from God and other believers.”

- Steve Gallagher, At the Altar of Sexual Idolatry (via mycondolences)

blue-sunspots: Cool Finger Paintings by Judith Braun

Sun, 03 Jun 2012 22:14:36 -0400

blue-sunspots:

Cool Finger Paintings

by Judith Braun

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"You’ll meet her. She’s very pretty, even though sometimes she’s sad for many days at a time. You’ll..."

Mon, 21 May 2012 06:53:23 -0400

“You’ll meet her. She’s very pretty, even though sometimes she’s sad for many days at a time. You’ll see, when she smiles, you’ll love her.”

- Pan’s Labryrinth (via eoduun)

I'm a light sleeper, but a heavy dreamer.: A wise woman I know once said,“A woman’s body is like a gift at...

Thu, 17 May 2012 06:50:02 -0400

I'm a light sleeper, but a heavy dreamer.: A wise woman I know once said,“A woman’s body is like a gift at...:

kaleidoscope-x-heart:

A wise woman I know once said,

“A woman’s body is like a gift at Christmas time. The men can see the gift is addressed to them, and are excited to unwrap it. Some gifts, however, aren’t wrapped the best and it’s quite easy to see the product that’s on the inside. This causes disappointment once…

balletanddance: By Patricio Melo

Mon, 07 May 2012 21:14:12 -0400

balletanddance:

By Patricio Melo

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Mon, 07 May 2012 21:13:34 -0400

peddecordphoto: This is dance.

Mon, 07 May 2012 21:12:33 -0400

peddecordphoto:

This is dance.

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